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I used to think I was clumsy aliveness bravery decision making emotion code intuition letting go life changes life coaching personal growth relationships self care Oct 05, 2026

Hi lovebug,

I’ve had a cell phone for… mmm… *squints and looks up* … sixteen years? Something like that.

And I used to drop my phone ALL the time.

My sisters jokingly said I had no grippies on my f...

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Stop doing his homework for him relationships Oct 01, 2026

Hi lovebug,

You know those high school movies from the 80s and 90s where the nerdy girl would do the popular boy’s homework in hopes that maybe one day he’d like her? 

I remember watching those movi...

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Feeling triggered? Here's what to do emotion code Sep 28, 2026

Hi lovebug,

Holy hell I got triggered today.

I may seem like a kind and bubbly person, but when I get triggered I go in one of two directions: 1) deeply sad and suffering or 2) molten hot with rage....

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How to stop avoiding the work you need to do avoidance business decision making emotion code engagement focus habits life coaching motivation personal growth resistance Sep 24, 2026

Hi lovebug,

Well I have been stubborn as hell lately.

My therapist calls my stubbornness a strength and a weakness. (Our character traits can often be both apparently.)

I can be determined as hell ...

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A simple way to feel less anxious anxiety emotion code life coaching mindset personal growth self care vulnerability Sep 21, 2026

Hi lovebug, 

Do you find yourself facing daily anxiety?

The one emotion I can’t seem to fully shake no matter where I am, no matter what I’m doing, is anxiety.

I've figured out some pretty decent c...

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Feeling lost? Your spirit guides may have answers psychic mediumship spirit connection spirit guides Sep 17, 2026

Hi lovebug, 

Did you know that there are a few kinds of psychic medium readings?

First a definition: A psychic medium is defined as someone who can communicate with spirit beings.

Those spirit bein...

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4 Life Lessons from Ted Lasso compassion emotion code engagement mindset people skills Sep 14, 2026

Hi lovebug,

Okay… so, if you’re not a Ted Lasso fan, I mean, not to be dramatic, but like… what are you doing with your life?!

*wink* 

*smile*  

No, I know, I know. It’s not for everybody, BUT, I ...

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Why gifted kids struggle as adults emotion code habits mindset personal growth self care vulnerability Sep 10, 2026

Hi lovebug,

When I was growing up, I was put into talented and gifted programs from as early as elementary school.

I remember feeling excited that I got to do extracurricular activities that challen...

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Are you leading your life or losing yourself? emotion code energy work mindset personal growth self care Sep 07, 2026

Hi lovebug,

I grew up in a family where my parents modeled being of service as an important value.

My dad, in addition to his work in sales, has been a volunteer of some stripe for as long as I can ...

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The fastest way to blow up your life energy work Sep 03, 2026

Hi lovebug,

Whenever my clients are getting close to making a big change in their life, they start using a particular phrase…

They say:

“Before I go and blow up my life.” 

The thing that’s so inte...

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Ready for something to actually change? energy work Aug 31, 2026

Hi lovebug,

It’s that time again where I get to brag about all my incredible client achievements from the past few months.

And there’s one CLEAR theme among all these badass women:

They all are sta...

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Stop setting boundaries after the fact boundaries Aug 27, 2026

Hi lovebug,

Last time we talked about ways to be more direct in your communications with folks. 

Clear, calm and direct communication is super helpful when you’re setting boundaries. 

But I prefer ...

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