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How to Feel Certain When Things Feel Shaky (…and not in the usual “just think positive” way) anxiety coping skills Apr 14, 2025

Hey lovebug,

UGHHHHHH.

The world is feeling extra stressful right now, right?

Lately, everyone I talk to falls into one of two camps:

  1. “I can’t stop reading the news."
  2. “I can’t even look at the ...
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Did the pandemic freeze your writing? (plus how to get writing again) coping skills creativity Nov 11, 2021

I want to talk about writing today.

Or technically, about not writing.

Specifically I’m talking to you novelists, screenplay writers, poets, and short story writers out there.

Hi babes.

I’ve heard...

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4 Steps for less stress in your life coping skills meditation Nov 03, 2021

Have you been feeling stressed lately?

Stress can show up as incessant worried thoughts, overthinking, a clenched jaw, tight shoulders, shallow breathing, increased heart rate or blood pressure, slee...

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The trap of familiar discomfort avoidance coping skills habits Oct 13, 2021

You know that friend you have who constantly gripes to you about her guy problems or her money problems or her work problems?

You listen patiently. You may even gently offer advice (since she asked f...

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Overwhelmed? Calm yourself down with these 3 steps coping skills habits life coaching Sep 22, 2021

I’m not going to talk about how overwhelming the world is right now because, um, hello.

It’s bananas.

B-A-N-A-N-A-S.

I swear. My brain does this EVERY TIME without fail.

(No idea what I’m talking ...

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3 ways to cope with eco anxiety (without completely losing your mind) coping skills life coaching mindset Sep 07, 2021

I was talking to a dear friend of mine a few weeks ago.

She said, “Hey… do you have anything to help with eco anxiety?”

Why yes. Yes I do.

Just a reminder/disclaimer, before we get into this: I’m n...

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How to connect with new people fast and easily coping skills friendship life coaching Aug 24, 2021

A couple of weekend’s ago I went to a wedding.

Being my boyfriend’s plus one meant that I knew exactly one person going in—him.

Although he is a VERY fun person to do anything with, he had friends a...

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Three ways to know if you’re soul sick avoidance coping skills soul Jul 28, 2021

Soul sick.

If you’ve ever experienced being soul sick, just seeing those words may bring up more of a visceral reaction in your body.

Let me tell you what I think being soul sick means:

It’s the fe...

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Ask yourself this question to get back on your path coping skills soul work spiritual coaching Jun 16, 2021

Have you ever felt blah?

Not bad.

Not great.

Not depressed really.

Just sort of numb and moderately uninterested in life?

Lukewarm.

Tepid, even.

That’s how I’d best describe this feeling.

Ofte...

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The biggest lesson Oprah taught me… avoidance coping skills intuition Mar 17, 2021

Did you ever watch Oprah when she was on TV?

I remember coming home after school, shrugging off my WAY too-heavy backpack, grabbing a snack, and plopping down on the living room floor to watch Oprah.

Sh...

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The pain of pushing against the pandemic coping skills engagement spiritual coaching vulnerability Feb 10, 2021

A number of years ago, I was on an overnight work trip with a colleague.

I adored this coworker.

She and I would make each other laugh, shared similar values, and always enjoyed an easy time in each o...

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How to help your loved ones let go coping skills death and dying spiritual coaching Feb 03, 2021

Since I started doing this work as a psychic medium, I’ve become someone that my friends and family have reached out to for advice on dying.

Specifically on how to help loved ones transition.

I will t...

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