Hey lovebug,

Whenever I’m working with a client, I ask a lot of questions.

How did you feel when that happened? 

What did you think of that response?

What do you want your 2026 to look like? 

The thing I hear a lot of the time is… I don’t know. 

I don’t know how I feel.

I don’t know what I think.

I don’t know what I want.

In all fairness, my clients hired me because they need help figuring these things out.

And there’s no shame in saying I don’t know. We all go through seasons where we feel lost and uncertain of our next steps. I most definitely have.

With each of those clients, when I have them pause, breathe and take their best guess, they all have immediate answers to my questions.

I believe that I don’t know can become a habitual statement. I see it as a subconscious reflex to keep the conversation superficial and not go within to find the answers. 

Stopping to consider your thoughts, feelings and desires takes a bit of intimacy. It’s a risk to state: I felt this way. I thought that. I deeply want this to happen.

But there is SO MUCH POWER in taking those mini-inventories. 

There’s direction there. There’s clarity. There’s focus. 

When you let yourself reflexively repeat I don’t know again and again, you’re missing out on a deep well of truth from your inner being.

So I’m going to encourage you to quit saying I don’t know. 

Here are some things you can say instead: 

Hm. Let me think about that. 

Give me a moment so I can tune into how I feel. 

Oooh that’s a great question… What do I want? 

In this moment you’re creating space for yourself to take a little dive into the truth of your heart. 

As I often say, “Take the elevator down from your head and into your heart.”

The head may not know, but the heart (or intuition) often does. 🙂

The matriarchy is rising and with that comes the departure from focusing so much on the masculine (brain) so we can tune into the wisdom of the feminine (body). 

And that goes for every person of every gender. 

If you find yourself saying “I don’t know” more than you’d like, it may be time for a psychic reading/multidimensional healing.

These sessions contain MASSIVE amounts of information that I will channel for you about your healing, growth and next steps. 

All sessions are recorded because there’s no way you could write it all down and soak up all the healing light coming through for you. 

And every session is different and new and full of so much more from your guides – that’s why I have so many repeat clients. They get new information, new healing, new clarity every time. 

If you’re ready to get next level healing, amp up your confidence and see what your guides have to say for you for 2026, a psychic reading is for you. 

Send me an email at [email protected] with I need a reading and we’ll get you booked. 

I can’t wait to see what comes through for you,

Rebecca*