Why You Can’t Ignore That “Off” Feeling in Your Relationship
Mar 02, 2026
Hi lovebug,
I want to share something with you that usually stays behind the scenes in my work.
While many women come to me for help with their careers, their health, or their spirituality, there is usually a deeper problem they can’t ignore.
It’s their love life.
Let me tell you. It is so hard to focus on your business, your spiritual growth or anything else really, when your romantic relationship feels super heavy and overwhelming.
That "off" feeling lives in your body, making it impossible to truly change or grow or rest.
It sucks.
Here is the truth: You cannot compartmentalize your heart.
When things are off at home, those obsessive thoughts live rent-free in your head.
They steal your sleep and your joy.
They drain your focus and your energy.
And they keep at it until you get what you need: clarity + certainty about what to do next.
My goal as a healer and coach isn't to tell you what to do—it's to help you clear the emotional baggage around your decision so you can finally see whatever truth is meant for you.
If you’ve been stuck in the back and forth with your relationship for too long, remember—this is your life, babe.
We have an average of 30,000 days on this Earth, if we’re lucky.
Hard question here, but how many days have you spent unhappy in your relationship?
2 years = 730 days of dissatisfaction
5 years = 1,825 days of loneliness
10 years = 3,650 days of being your partner’s mom or maid or worse
When something isn’t right, it can feel easier to put your head in the sand and pretend that it’ll all resolve itself… someday,
It doesn’t.
So let’s not do that, mmkay?
Getting support does NOT mean that your marriage is over. It just means that you need some support.
And that’s normal.
I love helping women heal what’s going on with them so they can either make a grounded reconnection in love or decide that it’s time to move on.
Trust that we can figure out what’s the best next step for you.
Rebecca*
PS: Have a friend who’s in this position? Forward them this email. You could positively change their whole life journey with one click of your mouse.