Hey lovebug,

If you’ve been following me on social media, you might be wondering why the heck I talk about relationships so much? 

(If we’re not friends on Instagram, you can connect here, or here to be friends on Facebook. I’d love it if we were connected. 🙂)

Well I’ve been doing this work for nearly eight years now and THE NUMBER ONE REASON women reach out to me is because they are in a state of despair about their relationship.

Yep, I said it. Despair.

Here’s what I see:

• They love their partner, but their partner isn’t pulling their weight with breadwinning, with household responsibilities, with parenting, with emotional growth, you name it. 
• They feel like they’ve drifted from their partner and they don’t know how to come back together.
• They have an uncomfortable suspicion that their partner is cheating and they’re looking for confirmation that they’re not crazy (so far, every partner HAS been cheating and it was only a matter of time until it came out). 
• They’ve fallen for someone else. Maybe they’re having an emotional affair or they are starting to see that they have many needs that aren’t being met (and have never been met) by their current partner and they need support. 
• They’re coming to realize that their partner is an addict. They may not feel ready to admit it but their partner is addicted to alcohol or food or work or opioids or gambling or sex or porn or something else. But the addiction is deeply affecting their life together and they don’t know what to do.
• They’ve been in therapy, often for years, and it’s helped, but they’ve hit a ceiling and need something new and fresh and highly effective. 
• They’ve spent a lot of time and energy and money working on themselves to see if they could handle the problem by working on themselves. 
• They have a tendency to value other people’s feelings over their own. Even though they’ve been unhappy for years (yes, years), they are more concerned about the pain their partner will feel if they leave instead of the pain they’ve been experiencing staying with them. (I know. Let that sink in.)

Your significant other is your PRIMARY RELATIONSHIP. 

That relationship will affect your physical health, your mental health, your finances, your social circles, your every day joys, your every day frustrations, your ability to relax and enjoy life.

That relationship is present on every birthday, every holiday, every vacation, every achievement, every disappointment, and many deaths over your lifetime.  

Who you choose for that position in your life may be the most important decision you’ve ever made. 

So. When you come to me and you’re in desperate need of clarity about whether to stay or leave your partner, I understand the ramifications of that decision. 

It’s big. 

If you stay and nothing changes, your life may never really be what you dreamed it could be. 

You could blink and wake up one day and suddenly you’re seventy-eight. You’re still waiting for your partner to change, they haven’t, and you’re still miserable. 

The older you get, the harder it is to leave a relationship. There is so much more to untangle the longer you’ve been together. 

But WHY would a psychic and spiritual teacher help you to uncover what you truly want in a love relationship? 

Well, psychics (good ones) are reflecting back what you already know deep down. Occasionally we will bring through something you don’t expect (I love it when that happens), but mostly we provide confirmation of what you suspect is true. 

If I can help you trust yourself about your relationship, then you can start to trust yourself about other things.

Your spiritual journey. Your money-making ability. Your parental decisions. Your boundaries. Your desires. Your big dreams. Your creative pursuits. Your one precious LIFE. 

More than one of my clients has left or healed a relationship with their partner and then BOOM, big changes start happening.

They buy a house. They land a big client. They become more visible. They go traveling. They become closer to their kids. They lose a bunch of weight. They massively grow their business.  They start feeling alive in a new way. 

ALL of that energy that was bound up in that decision is directed back into them and it is a WONDER to witness. 

So. That is why I recommend walking through the door of healing your primary relationship first. It is crucial to helping you expand, heal and grow in every other aspect of your life.

If you’re like, “Well when you put it that way… I think I better talk to you.” Let’s chat. I don’t do hard-sells because, gross, but I will listen to you and we will find a solution that works for you and your life as it is right now.

Let’s chat.

In the meantime, remember, you, your desires and your dreams matter. 

This is YOUR life babe. 

Live it,

Rebecca*