Hey lovebug,

I may ruffle some feathers today, but it’s important. 

If you’re feeling lost and confused... 

If you’re feeling overwhelmed and trapped…

If you need to make a decision and you don't know which way to turn…

I need you to stop pulling oracle cards.

Just please - stop.

Now I know that desperate feeling that sits in your chest when you feel lost + overwhelmed + confused.

I KNOW IT.

I spent years in a state of panic about what decision to make when. 

YEARS I tell you. 

And I would pull cards and look for signs and read books and do all manner of FREAKING OUT in an attempt to have some certainty.

I would ask my friends. (my poor friends)

I would ask my family. (my poor family) 

I do this WAY less now, but it used to be a super often exchange where I would casually say… “What do YOU think I should do about xyz…” 

They would kindly and compassionately give me a thoughtful answer, but it wouldn’t quite feel right so I would ignore it and move on to the next person. 

Bless the good people in my life for putting up with that because good GRIEF that was annoying of me.

But here’s the thing: I did not trust myself so I was endlessly asking for help about MY life.

And THAT was the actual problem. 

I wanted something else to tell me what to do. 

Or I thought I did.

Then people would tell me and I wouldn’t follow their advice because the wisdom I needed was from exactly one person.

Me. 

When you pull oracle cards, you’re weakening your decision making muscles.

When you run your life by committee, you’re telling yourself that you can’t be trusted with your own life.

When you drown out your intuition with so much noise, YOU CAN’T HEAR YOUR OWN WISDOM.

But let me tell you babe, it’s uncomfortable to get out of that habit.

I had to stop telling my friends about the guys I was dating so I could decide if I liked them or not without their input. 

I had to stop telling my business colleagues about the strategies for my business so I could decide if the plans felt right for me.

I had to stop pulling cards and reading my horoscope and looking for answers on Instagram so that I could tap into the deep well of my incredible knowing.

But I had to get used to the FEELING of being a closed circuit first. 

I had to trust my own authority, NO MATTER WHAT and then trust that I could handle whatever happened after I’d made my choice. 

That is today’s PSA. 🙂

If you want help learning to deeply trust yourself and you’re ready for the healing that comes along with that, it’s time to sign up for my coaching container before the prices go up on January 1st to $5k for 5 months.

Grab one of the last spots at the $2997 price for 6 months (or $550/month for 6 months) by sending me an email at [email protected] with I’m in! 

Lauren and I will get you set up from there. 

Rebecca* 

PS: This is going to feel super meta, but if YOUR intuition says to keep pulling cards - trust that over me. I used oracle cards to illustrate the point: trust YOURSELF. Okay, that’s it. <3