Hi lovebug,

It’s that time again where I get to brag about all my incredible client achievements from the past few months.

And there’s one CLEAR theme among all these badass women:

They all are standing in their power and doing what is right for them. 

Let’s run through the list! (names are changed for confidentiality)

• Mariah got a divorce. She started working with me over a year ago to try and figure out what was going on with her marriage. She worked hard, SO HARD, on herself for over a year and then it started to dawn on her that she wasn’t happy, that her husband wasn’t putting the same amount of effort in as she was (he was scarcely doing anything in fact), and she just kept having this SENSE that something was off with his behavior. After they decided to split, some unsavory things came to light and she felt so good about her decision and her intuitive hits. Now she’s dating a wonderful man, she’s renovating a house and continuing to grow her intuitive capabilities (which also started to grow and GROW as we worked together). She’s doing amazing things. Mariah wanted clarity, freedom, mutual respect, love, acceptance and joy and she’s getting it. 

• Cara asked for a separation. She told me that she heard a voice in her head as clear as day say “Today is the day.” She walked right in and told her husband that she wasn’t happy and wanted to take some time away. For the first time, she’s finding her voice and speaking out loud about what she needs. Cara had been going back and forth about making this choice for years. I’m so proud of her for standing up for herself.

• Stacy got a new job that pays her more than she’s ever been paid. Ever. She and I have been working together for years and she’s been diligently working towards getting into a position with higher pay and new responsibilities. AND SHE DID IT. She’s also focusing on herself, her needs, her wants and not worrying about everyone else so much. It’s been beautiful to watch.

• Annabelle stopped overextending herself at work. I cannot tell you what a big deal this is. Annabelle owns a successful business and it requires a lot from her. Over the time we’ve been working together we’ve been untangling the idea that more work = being a better business owner. Something clicked recently where she’s not going to work as many hours and she feels good about it! She also untangled a complicated work dilemma that had been plaguing her for years. I mean, HUGE.

• Olivia got a new job AND is feeling way less anxious than she used to feel all the time. Olivia had her sights set on a job that she had to wait months to get through the process. (It was ridiculous how long it took, in my opinion), but she hung in there and nailed it. When we first started working together, she felt anxious all the time. Like, ALL the time. I know this because I have clairempathy and I often feel my clients feelings in session. Good grief it used to be intense! In the last few sessions her anxiety has just been… not… there. That hum of intensity running below the surface has left. It’s incredible. I’m so psyched for her!

• Lindy is learning to say no in some tough situations. Lindy has a bit of an intense family and there are lots of unspoken rules about how you show up for family. She has been learning to say no to certain family members and has been learning to breathe through the discomfort. Saying no is tough. Saying no to expectant family members is really tough. She’s starting to center herself more and more and it’s so fantastic to witness!

All of my clients blow my mind because they ALL make big progress. Every single one of them.

They are learning how to communicate with clarity, ask for more money at work, say no to things they really don’t want to do, have hard conversations so that life can be more peaceful, stay in their lane so other people can do their own growth work. I MEAN. It’s exceptional! 

I cannot tell you how fast these changes happen once we start working together. 

Listen, don’t stop seeing your therapists, please. 😂 But if you’re hitting your head against the wall and you’re ready for something to actually shift, you need to do something differently. 

Because this is what happens when we stop endlessly analyzing the problem and start actually changing the patterns keeping you stuck. (and it works)

If you’re ready to communicate differently, trust yourself more, stop overgiving, ask for what you want, and finally feel like you’re freaking running your own life again (GOOD GRIEF YES), it’s time to come work with me.

You don’t need to become a different person. 

You just need to stop abandoning yourself. 

So, how do we do that? I recommend that you start with a Done-for-You package. You can check it out here.

I’m ready if you are babe. 

I’m also ready if you’re not. Listen, you can borrow my confidence until you have your own. 😉

Rebecca*