How to find hope again after life falls apart - part two
Jun 04, 2026Hi lovebug,
Last week a beautiful transmission came through from Archangel Gabriel about the perspective to take to move through hard times on Earth. If you missed it, you can read it here.
I thought I’d also share my perspective as a person who’s been through her fair share of hard times. Transmissions can be so esoteric and sometimes we need to hear it human to human.
So - how the heck do you keep the faith in God/Spirit/the Universe when everything in your life is crumbling?
Welp. I’ll tell you what I do.
Whenever I’ve had pain of any kind: physical, financial, emotional, relational, I remember that pain is a messenger.
It’s telling me SOMETHING IS OFF HERE, girlie, and you need to get to the bottom of it so you can heal it and grow.
When I was diagnosed with a fast growing cancer at twenty-six (I’m fine now, btw), I didn’t think “God, why are you doing this to me?” I thought, “Rebecca, what is going on here, babe? What do you need?”
Turns out I needed a major life overhaul (new home, new job, new relationship) and some deep healing work that I’d been 100% avoiding.
When I fell on really hard financial times, I didn’t think “God, why are you punishing me?” I thought, “Rebecca, you are trying to handle all of this alone and it’s not working. Who do you need to reach out to?”
I needed to get out of my own head and talk to people who weren’t shaming me for my mistakes. I needed people to tell me that I wasn’t a failure. I needed support.
When I had acute back pain that came on suddenly one day, I didn’t think “God has left me here to suffer on my own.” I thought, “How can I help myself? What is my body trying to tell me? Where do I need more support? What unresolved trauma is rearing its head right now?”
To be honest, this was the hardest one to get through (and I’ve been through my share of really hard times) because acute pain is relentless. But even through all of that, I never thought that God had it in for me. I knew I was learning something big throughout the whole process.
Perhaps all of this comes from a bedrock belief I hold that God is kind and good and loving and only wants me to thrive and I’m the one who gets in the way of that.
My world comes from me. My mind. My beliefs. My emotions. My trauma. And my actions.
I have never once thought that God had it in for me. God has never been punitive in my mind.
I do know that I can punish myself, sabotage myself, make my life harder than it needs to be, not ask for help when I need it, blame outside circumstances for my shortcomings, and feel entitled to a life that’s good without having to take any risks to get it.
Hahahahahaha.
It makes me laugh a little when I read that because it’s just so silly. Like, why wouldn’t I just make my life easier?!
But it’s WHAT WE HUMANS DO! ALL THE TIME! We’re programmed from a young age to make our lives harder than they need to be. It’s so ridiculous that we’re like this, but we are! All of us.
I believe a big part of our work is untangling what we’ve been programmed to believe and learning to trust ourselves and a higher power so that we can have an easier, gentler existence this go around.
Man. Earth school is wild.
So, I hope that sheds some light on the perspective I have when things get hard. I bring it back to myself and know that Spirit is right there with me, holding me, as I work through whatever it is that I’m learning.
If you’re looking for support and guidance and healing on this round of your Earth journey, I highly recommend a reading.
Yes, you will get guidance and answers to your questions, but you’ll also get a healing that you can’t get anywhere else?
Just this week I removed two energetic targets of clients’ backs, pulled an energetic axe out of a client’s upper shoulder, cleared dark energy and cut cords from a trauma that happened five years ago, released stuck energy from the jaw related to a trapped emotion… wild and incredibly helpful work.
Is it time to see what’s waiting for you to heal? I think so. Book here.
Rebecca*