Hi lovebug,

Whenever my clients are getting close to making a big change in their life, they start using a particular phrase…

They say:

“Before I go and blow up my life.” 

The thing that’s so interesting about it is that I see things very differently.

Making a change because your relationship isn’t working any longer or your career isn’t a fit or you want to move to a new city isn’t blowing up your life.

It’s a conscious decision.

Yes, of course there will be changes that come from that decision, but you’re not setting a bomb off and ruining everything.

However.

If you did want to blow up your life, there’s one surefire way to do it.

And that is to go against your better judgement…

To move forward even though you have reservations…

To ignore your intuition even as it’s getting louder and louder…

THAT, my friend, will result in some outside force blowing up your life to get it back into alignment.

So technically, if you want your life to be dramatic and hard, abandoning yourself and your truth is the way to go. 

You can do this by ignoring a health issue that probably needs some medical attention and you ignore it for too long.

You can blow up your life by knowing that you don’t want to marry your fiancé and going through with it anyway. (Things will eventually blow up when your marriage falls apart.)

You can blow up your life by hiring someone because you feel bad for them. Pity is never a good metric for whether someone is a good fit for a position (even a small gig job). 

You can blow up your life by doing something you know you shouldn’t do and your intuition tells you not to do it, but you ignore that inner voice. 

In short, you blow up your life when you avoid what you know is the truth.

If you’re pivoting in life because something doesn’t feel right, that usually leads to MORE alignment. 

If you’re ignoring the reality of life, things will blow up eventually to get you back to center. 

And, hard truth here babe, when you ignore life to the point of blowing things up? 

Well, it won’t be pretty. 

So, if you’re feeling royally stuck, if you know you need to make some forward movement, but you don’t have 6 months to wait for the transformation, here’s what I recommend:

Let me take it. 

Seriously. Hand it over. 

Imagine going to bed knowing someone is actively working to get rid of the emotional stuff you’ve been carrying around for years.

No homework. No deep dive. No forcing yourself to “feel your feelings” one more time. No hour long calls to fit into your schedule. No energy work routines. 

Just hand me the stuff you’re ready to stop carrying. I’ll take it from there. Now, I’m not being some emotional baggage martyr here. What I’m suggesting is that you hand over your heavy stuff to be transmuting into light stuff. I mean: let me work on your baggage in the Done For You package while you keep on living your life. 

We can clear blocks around money, self-love, blended family conflicts, ongoing legal battles, intimacy issues… I mean, we can focus on ANYthing in this done for you container and you seriously only show up for three short check-ins. It’s so awesome and fast and effective.

If you could do anything for yourself to make your life easier in the fastest way possible, this is the option I would recommend.

If you have questions or if you are very interested but need a payment plan, reply to this email. I’m happy to help. 

Rebecca*