An alignment hack for you that takes minutes

Hey lovebug,

I was talking with a friend of mine a few months ago.

This guy is a super achiever. 

He’s got a great job with a beautiful home in a great city. He’s traveled all over the world. He’s met a number of his big financial goals already. He opted not to have kids and chose a really adorable dog instead. He’s fit. He’s at the top of his game career-wise. He pretty much does what he wants when he wants to do it. 

But when we were chatting, something was gnawing at him. I could hear it in his voice.

When I asked, he said he felt unfulfilled. 

From the outside, his life looked pretty freaking amazing.

By all accounts, he had achieved all the things many folks set out to do. 

But underneath all that achievement, he felt out of alignment. 

There are certain things we need to live happily in this life: a secure income, a safe place to live, access to healthy food and water, friends, relationships, and work that makes us feel alive.

But what about when you meet all those marks and you STILL feel like something is missing?

When that happens, it’s your cue to stop satisfying the ego and start satisfying the soul.

Where the ego wants millions of dollars, the soul wants to invest money in making a difference.

Where the ego wants to be fit physically, the soul wants to use that body to do things that feel energizing. 

Where the ego wants to have a “hot partner,” the soul wants to feel seen, nourished, and understood by someone who truly loves them.

Can you feel the difference in your body as you read those words?

I feel the difference in my body as I write them: The ego energy is in my head center and the soul energy is in and around my heart center. 

It comes from a different place.

When someone tells me they “should” feel amazing because of their achievements, I invite them to check in with their soul.

I ask:

• What does your soul really want right now (even if it makes no sense)?
• Where have you ignored your soul’s calling in order to hit your goals?
• What makes you feel most vulnerable about the future?

That last question may seem out of left field, but it’s often the one that really gets into the areas of your life that you’re avoiding? (Because it makes you feel so vulnerable.)

Maybe it’s about leaving a legacy.

Maybe it’s about being forgotten.

Maybe it’s about doing something meaningful because life feels half over.

Maybe it’s about being present with your parents near the end of their life.

Maybe it’s about pursuing an art you abandoned years ago for a “real job.”

Whatever that vulnerable thing is, your soul is there waiting for you.

So, to get into alignment, take the elevator down from your head into your heart.

Ask yourself those questions and see what comes up.

If you need help with this process, even a half hour psychic medium reading can help you drill down to what’s really out of alignment for you. 

You can book your 30 min or hour long session here. 

Until next week love,

Rebecca*