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10 signs you’re ready for deep healing

generational healing multidimensional healing Dec 15, 2025

Hey lovebug,

I was talking with a client turned friend of mine the other day. 

She was telling me that a friend of hers is going through a difficult time right now and could use support.

Then she said, “I feel like she should work with you, but I couldn’t really explain what you do…” 

I get that. This work is unique and doesn’t fit into a box. 

It’s easier to see if this work is a fit for you based on how you see the world and the challenges you’re facing right now. 

Here are 10 easy ways to see if you’re cut out for this work:

1. You feel like a hot mess. 9 out of 10 new clients show up on day one saying these exact words to me: I feel like a hot mess. If you’re walking around feeling like that, bingo. 

2. You’ve been trying to solve your problems on your own for too long. My clients are high achievers, independent thinkers, go-getters and yet they can’t figure this one thing out. And it’s driving them crazy.

3. You’re sabotaging yourself but you don’t know how to stop. Self sabotage suuuucks. There’s no other way to put it. BUT. When you can start to see yourself doing it and then stop. Whoo! *chef’s kiss* We will get you there. 

4. You’re intuitive, but you don’t always trust yourself. One of the reasons you feel like a hot mess is because you know you need to be doing things differently, but you can’t get yourself to do it. Your intuition knows what you need, but you’re stuck. 

5. You’ve been doing the work already. Maybe you go to therapy, you journal, you meditate, you make vision boards, you read self-help books. You’ve been trying (hard!) and yet there still feels like there’s something that all this work can’t quite reach or heal inside of you.

6. You know you’re meant for more. You know it. You’re certain that you can feel better, make more money, have a deeply satisfying relationship, have more fun with your kids – you’re sure of it. And you’re ready for it. 

7. You don’t want to feel better just for you, but for your partner, your kids, your whole family. The work I do with clients isn’t just individual healing, it’s generational healing. Yes you will change, but the energy of your home will also change. The dynamics with your kids will shift. The relationships with siblings and parents will be new. 

8. You want fast results. That sounds so “hey! this is healing, express!” of me, but it’s not what I mean. I mean that you’re ready to be a new person in a year’s time. We will be actively shedding the old layers of you that you’ve outgown and we do it FAST. I’ve had the partners of my clients say to them, “You are different… you’re so much more chill… you’re so calm… wow.” It’s fast. 

9. You’re cool with multidimensional healing. What the heck is multidimensional healing? It’s healing across lifetimes. It’s healing the past while staying firmly grounded in the present. It’s healing trauma that happened hundreds of years before you were even born, but that trauma affects you today. It’s a little weird (because it’s different), but it’s highly, highly effective. 

10. You’re ready to be free - you’ve made the decision. This is the biggest one. This work will change your life even if you don’t completely feel ready, but when you’ve DECIDED that it’s time, your world will change. I love seeing the freedom that my clients get year after year. 

If you see yourself in at least five out of ten of these indicators, it’s time to grab one of the two spots left at this year’s coaching prices.

Right now it’s $2997 for 6 months (or $550/month for 6 months). 

January 1, coaching will be $5000 for 5 months. 

Email me at [email protected] with I’m IN and we’ll take it from there. 

Rebecca*

 

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