Why we resist things + Emotion Code® Demo info!
Jul 29, 2024
Hello loved one,
Exciting news! I’m doing a 90 minute Emotion Code® demo (online! So you can totally attend live!) at either of these times:
** Wednesday, August 7th–at 9am PST/12pm EST
OR
** Wednesday, August 7th at 5pm PST/8pm EST
Come and see this process in action. My clients tell me all the time about how their life is SO different and SO much better because of this process.
When you attend live you’ll have an opportunity to volunteer and get some emotions cleared, LIVE. Come. See how this all works. Get some emotions cleared for free. Bring your friends and family members.
It could change your life.
Attend the 9AM PST / 12PM EST demo by signing up here.
Attend the 5PM PST / 8PM EST demo by signing up here.
I bang on about this magical process in my newsletters a lot but what IS the Emotion Code® really? How does it work? What are trapped emotions anyway?
And my all time favorite question… how can this process help you?
The bonus about hanging out with me for an hour and a half is that I will do my best to make you laugh and feel all around lighter about all this dense energy we’re moving out of your systems.
But hey, no spoilers! The best way to learn is come see the process for yourself!
So yeah… COME HANG OUT! I promise it’ll be educational and super eye-opening.
Now! On to today’s topic…
WHY the heck do we resist things?
Well *pushes up glasses* we resist things largely because we are human and we are wired for homeostasis (keeping things the way they are) even when change would be enormously good and right and positive for us.
*brushes off hands and waves*
Thank you and GOODNIGHT!
*wink*
Okay, yes, that’s the most basic reason, but that’s not everything.
I’ve learned over time that the body/subconscious mind is trying its best to keep us safe and protected and in a state of the KNOWN.
I’m sure you know that.
Doesn’t make it any less aggravating though, does it?
In my experience, it’s all a big strategy.
Granted, that strategy may have been birthed by a five year-old version of yourself, but it’s a strategy, still.
Those strategies come from choice points moments.
Choice points are when something happens in your life that’s usually painful and you make a decision to be different.
These decisions (the ones that hold us back later in life) are often fueled by pain although other choice points can be fueled by inspiration or an awe-inspired event.
Here’s an example: the school bully makes fun of you for wearing pants that are too short for you at school.
He humiliates you in front of your friends at school, literally laughing and pointing at you, and you feel horrified.
It’s so embarrassing and enraging that you decide, right then and there, that you will never, EVER, let anyone make fun of you about how you look. << choice point!
You go home and throw out those pants. You tear through your closest and try on every pair of pants and get rid of the short ones. You beg your mom to take you shopping. You begin reading fashion magazines. Your anger and shame fuels major change for you.
And you also, quietly, create a layer of hardness around your heart.
Fast forward twenty-five years and you can’t get yourself to stop overspending.
You know you need to stop, but you literally can’t get yourself to.
You’re resistant to change even though you’ve read the books and know you really need to make a change, but something in you (hello choice point) decided a long time ago that you needed a strategy in place to keep you safe.
Twenty five years later, it’s backfiring.
And that’s where I come in.
I help my clients dig up these memories so that we can clear the embarrassment, shame, and anger from that bully memory.
As we clear away the energetic charge (the energy that makes you feel the emotions of the experience all over again) the adult can start making decisions about how they want to live now, rather than living in response to something that happened in the past.
We have TONS of these choice point moments in our lives.
The one I shared was a conscious example, but there are MANY that are subconscious decisions that run quietly behind the scenes.
Sub-conscious means we’re not really aware of them. And that’s why the resistance to things that are actually good for us can be so frustrating!
That info is IN our subconscious mind!
Gah!
I will say this:
It's the ongoing struggle between striving to achieve change when so much of our energy is wrapped up in not changing that makes the human experience so maddening and confusing, AND THEN ALSO, so exciting and rewarding when we breakthrough.
I have to admit that I’m pretty obsessed with breakthroughs.
Not just for myself, but for EVERYONE.
Some of you may remember choice points in your life and you may be able to see how they relate to the stuckness in your life now.
Some of you may not.
That’s why people like me exist *hello!* and modalities like The Emotion Code® *deeper voice hello* exist: so you can GET TO those subconscious emotions that are running the show and release them.
Whew! Get it?
If you kinda get it, but you want to learn more, come to the Free Emotion Code® Demo on August 7th!
I’ll explain it a lot more and you’ll see how easy it is to get to these emotions and then quickly clear them.
I seriously love it. (And you will too.)
Okay lovebug!
If you don’t want to wait and you want to clear some emotions now, you can sign up for an Intro Session here.
BIG hugs,
Rebecca*